Being Trapped By Women on and Off the Poker Table (2) Compared The Feeding Trapper
To trap or not to trap? A frequent thought that flows through the mind time after time. What about if one was to add into the equation: To trap or not to trap while watching if you are being trapped as you; yourself trap in various ways? Yep! I am also confused! This is technical! So hard to wrap ones head around!
Lets compare what I am trying to say to women, you guys and relationships. Then I can explain a lot easier more easily and bring a little CRAZY LOVE to the table while saving your asses both in a poker and from crazy women that are not what you need! (Or men, for those ladies that are also often finding themselves trapped by douche bags!)
We are all a little nuts, some more than others. We also have our individual ways of developing friendships into relationships. One can only hope (for the sake of all you guys out there) that most people (normal people) decide to develop a relationship freely, to let be what will be, to dive into the arms of a potential lover when you are wanted, in a natural way, and to form a solid 2 way foundation and build perfection and be happy with no stupid games. If it doesn't work, meh! On you go ...... On they go ........
This I call natural play! No tricks, no traps! The way it is meant to be. Of course you expect the curiosity that sets in, weariness of whats playing out in front of you, a little anxiety and a little excitement all which should be shown at the right times. An ordinary hand of poker when its compared to a potential budding relationship /fling. You with me now?
I have recently discovered there's some women in the world (probably men too!), that play the friendship / fling / relationship game a little differently. (Watch them guys, I'm wow'd to say the least at this sudden discovery). They play games of trap. When there are traps of all different kinds being set things can seemingly get very messy and very ugly! I am sure some of you know this already. This is purely for those that do not.
As I do, often, if you have followed my writing of all kinds, I take to the table, to my writing or to the guitar what I discover in life. I plan to do this with a series of trapping articles. These may or not make sense. Hopefully they do help somewhat and relate to your social or poker life.
(Side note: I would like to take this opportunity to thank every woman who tries or has tried to stupidly trap men into a relationship, its definitely something that needs to be said at this moment. Without you, I wouldn't be writing this! You have unlocked my writing block. Also thanks to the trapped guys out there that have sent me info! Ladies, really? Why bother???)
Lets look at the female traps I have discussed of recent times and ones I have determined through a little more reading and research and convert them into some poker table sense to save your asses from traps of all kinds while unveiling your very own! (Revert to the confusing start of my article). (Article 1 - this article - the Welcome Seller, other female trap articles to follow, there's too many traps to put in 1 post)
The Feeding Trapper!
She throws you delicious and scrumptious food, its in your face, you eat it and taste all the sweets and sours. She shows you what family life could be like. She offers the perfect child and delicious nightly meals, packed lunches. She intends on using the oldest trap theory of buying the way into a mans heart through his stomach (of course there may be a little hanky panky on top after you are fed and feeling content, but the main throw line is the food! The food gets you to the next two steps she has planned.). You; most men, could really live with this attention and this fine dining all the time!
Poker Converted:
This is a weak trap where crumbs of truth are thrown directly onto the table (literally). She has a different hand and a different plan than what she represents and is feeding you bits and pieces to get you into her clasps! Why would she do this? Fill you with information? Well, its obviously incorrect information! Don't think she just has a heart flush, she is going to nail you with a life ruining, straight heart flush that you can not escape! Setting this trap is so easily done with the right cards on the board as she sends you little crumbs of info to make you think she has something else. Both are the life and poker variant traps are the oldest in the books ..... Check and RAISE awareness .....
